After realizing where the world is headed, and how technology is going to take over, there will be absolutely no jobs available for our children when they become of age. I'll be damned if my kids go to college to waste their time and OUR money on a career that will be impossible to even achieve! Ive seen too many people go that route. I'd rather my kids sign their life to the government, serve our country, learn a trade, and get RESPECT than to sell their soul to the government for college just to be in DEBT, living off of mommy and daddy and amounting to nothing! My middle child said she wanted to be a mail lady, she's been saying it for a while now, I thought, damn! By the time my children grow up, postal service will be extinct just like the milkman. That's sad, because they're already going to take Saturdays away. There will be nothing for them! I really hope that my children learn from the little responsibilities we give them at home, but for them, they are big ones. Like cleaning their room, putting their dishes in the sink, scrubbing the toilet, and mopping the kitchen floor, setting up their lemonade stand during the summer to make their own money.. I make EVERYTHING a privilege for my kids. That's why their room is clean right now, going to church and having tamales for breakfast got their room spotless in 10 minutes! If you can't start with the simple rules in your household, then what makes you think they'll respect the rules in life just up ahead.
I will be putting my children in military school the second they hit the 9th grade. By the time they graduate military school, they will already have learned a trade, that will benefit them in their future. In order to get ANYWHERE in life, and be a slightly successful; you have to have a RICH FAMILY, be a politician, marry the rich, or own your own business, and even at that, you HAVE to have connections. I know MORE failures, than I do successful humans. I'm a realist, I don't live on a prayer, I live in REALITY!
Public schools are horrible! All about fashion and who has this, and who has that. The teachers aren't even allowed to teach with enthusiasm. They have to go by state curriculum, which only allows the children to learn so much. The state alters the curriculum each year, which lessens the ability for our children to learn greater things! Teachers fucking the students, hitting the students, and judging them! Right now, I'm very grateful that my kids are going to a school where the teachers are still going by their own teaching methods and have been a teacher for 25+ years. These new teachers don't know anything about teaching our children today. It is truly sad.
I have plans for my children, and I know that when they grow up, they'll be thanking me. I've been looked at sideways, like I'm a horrible mother when I mention military school.
My oldest kid came to me the other day and said that 8th graders came to her school and played their string instruments for them, she then said she wanted to play the violin and play in soccer. Ive signed her up for soccer 2 years ago, but it was unprofessional so I took her out. i found a better league. I'm happy that my kids are making decisions on what activities they truly want to do, and is not forced. My middle child just played her first season in T-ball and is begging to do summer ball. So guess what? I'm turning their wants into a privilege.
All I want is the best for these kids. And I know I'm a strict mother, which also gets confused for verbal and mental abuse, but those are coming from the parents that have kids with absolutely no discipline or respect! But that's how I get respect, by me disciplining my children! I refuse to let my kids run all over me! I am not claiming to be mother of the year, but I see the difference from my kids, and other kids.
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